"Time heals all wounds"

Ok I have no idea who said this saying but Im beginning to think they were wrong. Time doesnt heal them. Time may make you forget them. Time may make them seem less important but healing them I dont think so. Some wounds never really heal we just put a bandaid over them and hope they will go away. We all carry battle scars from our childhood from past relationships from life in general. We may come to terms with our wounds but that doesnt mean that they are not reopened the next time something reminds us of them. One of my wounds is "Pack your shit and get the f*** out". I heard this for over 6 months before I finally did just that. So now I carry that with me into my new relationship. When I pack up from staying at his place for the weekend I make sure I dont leave anything behind that I cant live without cause Im scared come next week the lock will be changed and I will no longer be welcome. I know this is silly cause they are two totally different guys but the wound hasnt healed I guess. Or maybe its healed but I can still see the scar. So the saying "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" applies too. Words can hurt more than action. If he had broken my bones they would have healed by now but he broke my belief in myself. They made me try to change who I was. I believed his words even when I knew that he was wrong. Time may heal some wounds but the scars from words can also be left forever.